The awkward art of writing sex scenes
“It is not sex that gives the pleasure, but the lover.” Marge Piercy
In The New Republic’s recent article, “The Smitten Word: The Awkward Art of Writing About Sex,“ author Sam Lipsyte writes about one of the most difficult subjects for writers to tackle–sex scenes.
He says the conventional wisdom that less is more is usually best, but it can also be a cop-out. He writes:
“Sometimes, though, you have to face the multi-spined beast head on. Be brave, and trust in your love of language and your love of sex. (Or lack of it.) Trust in the modern gods who guide your hand: Sad and Funny. Like it or not, these are the twin poles for most of our tiny thoughts and doings. Sad and Funny are both the world and how we withstand it.”
Read the rest of Lipsyte’s article for more do’s and don’ts of writing sex scenes.
You can also read my previous post “How to Write a Good Sex Scene.“
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