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Write like a 5-year-old

Last week, I pulled out a draft of a children’s story I wrote years ago — actually one of the first stories I’d ever written. I realized that the most striking thing about the story was my frame of mind while I was writing it. At that point in my life, it didn’t occur to me that I had any limitations. I didn’t sit and stew about how to get into the story, or if it was good, or what anyone would think about it, or if anyone would want to read it or publish it. When I wrote the story, I was writing like a 5-year-old plays. Being a little messy, running around (on the page), and just being in the moment.

I was writing because I had an idea, I thought it would be fun, and I wanted to share it. At the time I wrote the story, I’d never gone to a writer’s workshop or read many books on writing. Now, after studying writing and going to seminars, I’ve figured out some of its flaws. Read more

The Jagger effect: the power of passion in writing

I watch the Grammy Awards each year because I love music. Since I was a little kid I’ve dreamed I could sing, play piano, or rock the guitar. In the early 70s, my cousin and I would ride in the back of my dad’s old Ford pickup belting out Carole King or Carly Simon at the top of our lungs. Things were different back then. I didn’t have to worry about carrying a melody, getting the words right, or even being in pitch. Now when I sing—as a grown up woman, wife, and mother—I am asked by various family members to stop—including our three cats, who begin to howl in unison when I burst into song.  Okay, I may be exaggerating a bit but, really, it’s that bad.

Fortunately, each year the Grammy Awards supply our household with some much needed relief along with some stunning moments. One of my all-time favorite performances was during this year’s ceremony when Mick Jagger hit the stage with “Everybody Needs Somebody to Love,” his tribute to Solomon Burke—the King of Rock ‘n Soul. From the first notes, everybody was on their feet.  Thanks to our DVR, we recorded the show and  watched his performance three times. Each time, Mick brought us to tears.

What was so great about his performance?  Read more